New Identity

So, Who am I?

I asked myself that same question. The kids had left home, I had split from my narcissistic boyfriend of 5yrs all in a couple of months. What do I do now? and Who is this person?

I was working as an outreach Support assistant but only getting paid 39 weeks of the year which was not enough to cover my bills and live.

I became a care worker. Enjoyed the role, but I was working too far from home and working shifts between 7 in the morning to 10pm at night. What life was this?

I joined an online Health and fitness program as I was a couple of years into the Menopause, anxiety levels through the roof, weight pilling on, confidence in my boots. Doctors put me on HRT which helped settle the night sweats and hot flushes...But something was missing.

I was listening to self help podcasts and books and trying to change myself from the inside out, rather than the other way round. 

I had heard of the "Law of Attraction", started listening to it and a lot of information resonated with me. I noticed that I was saying "Don't" a lot, "I don't want to be like my mother!" "I don't want to live like this!" Please, don't get me wrong, I love my Mum to pieces, but she lives month to month on her state pension, which she is happy with, but I want more in my life. 

So when it came to listening to the "Law of attraction" it told me, our brains do not recognize the word "Don't"! Therefore, I was manifesting everything I didn't want. No money, struggling to pay the bills, and becoming really unhappy. 

One of the chapters was about relationships, how to manifest the man of your dreams. So, I did!

I wrote what I wanted in a man, a relationship. I wrote that on the 26th July 2022. I met my husband on the 6th August 2022 and we were married 18th March 2023. 

I am not saying that a partner will change you, for me at the time I knew I wanted to remarry, was meeting Tom, Dick and Harry and not feeling any connection, commitment or just being the one. Until I heard the book.

To be honest this was the start of my "Finding me!" path, I know who I am, I know who I want to be, my purpose and how I am going to get there.

Let me know, if you've heard of The Law of Attraction, what have you gotten out of it? Let me know your tips.

Or, if you need to find your purpose and would like some tips, please leave a comment or send me an email.

Believe in yourself!

Julie